This is a great question if you're feeling stuck, stagnant or at the cross-roads of a big decision.
Do you want to adventure and wander? Do you want to have a lovely family and a job you enjoy going to every day? Should you take that new job or start that new business? Do you want to change the world? Should you move to a new city? What experience do you want to have of your life? And where the hell do you even start?!
Funny you should ask... There's an awesome three-step exercise I use with my clients to help them get clear on what they want for their personal and professional lives. All you need is a pen and paper.
Step 1: Free-writing. Write down, stream of consciousness style, everything you love and want to have in your life. List anything and everything that comes to mind - no matter how irrelevant or silly it may seem. This isn't a place to judge or censor yourself; be open and completely honest with yourself. Here's my list, exactly as it came out:
*A dream so big I have to grow and change to create it